i don't think our accepted business practices are normal

i don't think the way we are socialized to build and explore friendships is normal

i don't think the way we interact as genders, as races, as age groups, as neighborhoods, or as anything else is normal 

i don't think the way we build families is normal, i don't think the way we marry is normal, i don't think the way we parent is normal, i don't think what we "think" about kids is normal or grounded in any kind of fact or sense 

i don't think it is religion that makes people crazy 

i am not your mom friend, i am not your activist friend, i am not your girlfriend, i am not your queer family, i am not anything that you can label and categorize and sort easily

and that means no one knows how to easily interact with me 

and that means interacting with everyone is tiring and stupid and irritating