i don't wish her a happy mothers day because i am the one that raised me 

in the face of her inability to see me, support me, or love me, i held me together and pushed forward and picked a new path and learned how to make a set of life decisions she was never even aware could be made 

i owe her only for the opportunity of having learned how not to live 

and by the way, i have always deserved love, and constancy.