Loving you is my heart stopping when you express dissatisfaction in how we interact. Loving you is terror when you begin a sentence with “can you not”. Loving you is exhaustion after an emotional exchange. Loving you is navigating different communication styles. Loving you is recognizing my trauma and my mental illness and owning them in our interactions. Loving you is supporting your need for space, for expression, for absolute honesty. Loving you is finding solutions.