literally everyone causes me pain. unsolicited advice that is uninformed. kneejerk emotional reactions. superficial desires in place of deep morality or vision. 

i would rather be alone 

don't fucking tell me not to do ANTHING i want to do. i am going to do it! don't tell me not to pick a battle or project. i am going to do it. i am going to do anything i want to do. and i am not going to pick up YOUR hurt feelings about MY autonomy, vision, desire, or ability. 

i am not going to be the friend you want me to be. i am not going to be your daily person to text. i am not going to support stupid ideas, bad relationships, or harmful reactions. i think you should divorce your husband. i think you should put your kid in public school. i think you should be in therapy. i think you should shut the fuck up.