do non toxic workplaces exist

have humans ever figured out how to get along 

am i ever going to be able to be in stable employment 

which is it: 

i am too hard edged, too forcible about behaving in accordance with values, too upset when other people are pieces of shit 

workplaces are full of people who behave poorly and leaders who create toxic environments because under capitalism, we are all just consuming each other 

white people in particular fucking suck at communicating, connecting, understanding, empathizing, and giving a fuck