Dating queer femmes is hard, so here are some questions you could use on a first date that won't make things harder

Is this table okay? We can find a quieter place if we need to

Do you want a drink? Or if you'd prefer, I can get just a soda with you

Tell me about your first kiss, or the first intimate experience that you initiated or desired

Tell me a childhood memory, or if you don't remember any, tell me something you feel nostalgic about

Tell me about your family, or your chosen family

What's your coming out story? Or, who in your life had the best reaction to you coming out